I think I’d have to disagree with you on a couple points though from MY experience being married for 3 years. For us, so much DID change when we got married! Our relationship went from being high school/ rock n roll, to grown up!

We definitely do argue as a couple, but now we have this feeling like its ok, no one is going anywhere and we WILL work this out as we are in this for life and we are committed to one another. For us it definitely has its moments of being frustrating and being a lot of work. I do often have to remind myself to be mature and to let certain things go, choose my battles so to speak.

We also have now an 11 month old baby, which has been an amazing journey through pregnancy and new parenthood, and a complete 180 in lifestyle change, but we have managed to morph together as a couple as we always have since our teenage love affair began 7 years ago.

Any advice I have would be to try to remember why you choose this person, not just at the beginning of the relation ship, but last year, last week, and today. I know it seems a bit obvious but truly try and respect who they are and don’t try and change them! We got together so young, during a time of self discovery and complete change, and I think thats what has got us to here, complete respect for who one another is, and for our ever changing selves.